&#10&#77&#111&#118&#105&#110&#103 can upset children of any &#97&#103&#101. &#73&#116 frequently causes them &#116&#111 feel &#97&#112&#112&#114&#101&#104&#101&#110&#115&#105&#118&#101 and insecure. But, dont despair there are many &#116&#104&#105&#110&#103&#115 &#121&#111&#117 &#99&#97&#110 do to &#109&#97&#107&#101 the moving experience &#108&#101&#115&#115 scary &#102&#111&#114 &#121&#111&#117&#114 children.

Involve &#84&#104&#101&#109 from the Very Beginning.

Tell your &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110 &#97&#115 &#115&#111&#111&#110 as you know youre &#109&#111&#118&#105&#110&#103 &#100&#111&#110&#116 spring it on &#116&#104&#101&#109 at the last minute. Explain &#119&#104&#121 youre &#109&#111&#118&#105&#110&#103 &#105&#110 terms they can understand. &#68&#111 &#121&#111&#117 &#110&#101&#101&#100 more room? &#65&#114&#101 you relocating &#98&#101&#99&#97&#117&#115&#101 of a new &#106&#111&#98? &#66&#101 sure to explain what will &#104&#97&#112&#112&#101&#110 so theyll &#107&#110&#111&#119 &#119&#104&#97&#116 &#116&#111 &#101&#120&#112&#101&#99&#116. This will remove a lot of the fear and confusion &#116&#104&#101&#121 &#109&#97&#121 be feeling. &#84&#101&#108&#108 them when &#116&#104&#101 move will take &#112&#108&#97&#99&#101 and how their things will get from &#116&#104&#101 old &#104&#111&#117&#115&#101 to &#116&#104&#101 new house. &#66&#101 sure and answer their questions as fully as you can. Remember that your attitude &#97&#98&#111&#117&#116 the &#109&#111&#118&#101 will &#114&#117&#98 off on them, so stay upbeat and positive. &#84&#111 help prepare &#116&#104&#101&#109 further, &#121&#111&#117 canchoose from among many childrens books available on moving. Just &#97 couple of these are Berenstain Bears Moving &#68&#97&#121 &#98&#121 Sam &#66&#101&#114&#101&#110&#115&#116&#97&#105&#110 &#97&#110&#100 &#71&#111&#111&#100&#98&#121&#101 House by &#70&#114&#97&#110&#107 Asch. Check your local library for more.

Make &#116&#104&#101 &#77&#111&#118&#101 an Adventure.

If you approach the coming move as an &#101&#120&#99&#105&#116&#105&#110&#103 &#97&#100&#118&#101&#110&#116&#117&#114&#101 &#102&#111&#114 the entire family, it will help &#116&#111 calm your childrens fears. The &#109&#111&#114&#101 positive you are &#97&#98&#111&#117&#116 the move, the &#109&#111&#114&#101 &#112&#111&#115&#105&#116&#105&#118&#101 they will be. Make &#115&#117&#114&#101 they &#117&#110&#100&#101&#114&#115&#116&#97&#110&#100 &#116&#104&#101&#121 wont be left &#98&#101&#104&#105&#110&#100. &#65&#115&#107 for their &#115&#117&#103&#103&#101&#115&#116&#105&#111&#110&#115 &#97&#110&#100 &#105&#110&#118&#111&#108&#118&#101 them in &#116&#104&#101 &#112&#108&#97&#110&#115. If its possible, show them the &#110&#101&#119 house and let &#116&#104&#101&#109 spend some &#116&#105&#109&#101 exploring it. Show them where &#116&#104&#101&#105&#114 rooms &#119&#105&#108&#108 be. Help them visualize where their &#102&#117&#114&#110&#105&#116&#117&#114&#101 and toys will go. Show them the &#121&#97&#114&#100 and help them imagine all &#116&#104&#101 fun they &#119&#105&#108&#108 &#104&#97&#118&#101 there. If &#105&#116&#115 impossible for them to &#118&#105&#115&#105&#116 the &#110&#101&#119 house, &#116&#97&#107&#101 &#116&#111&#110&#115 of photos so theyll know what it looks like and can &#98&#101&#99&#111&#109&#101 familiar &#119&#105&#116&#104 &#105&#116. Talk &#97&#98&#111&#117&#116 all the fun things the family &#119&#105&#108&#108 &#100&#111 there.

Let &#84&#104&#101&#109 Help.

&#10&#73&#102 you give your children &#97&#110 active role in the move they &#97&#114&#101 &#109&#117&#99&#104 &#109&#111&#114&#101 likely &#116&#111 accept it and even &#103&#114&#111&#119 &#101&#120&#99&#105&#116&#101&#100 &#97&#98&#111&#117&#116 it. &#76&#101&#116 &#116&#104&#101&#109 pack &#115&#111&#109&#101 of &#116&#104&#101&#105&#114 &#111&#119&#110 &#98&#101&#108&#111&#110&#103&#105&#110&#103&#115, even if you &#104&#97&#118&#101 to go back and &#114&#101&#112&#97&#99&#107 &#116&#104&#101&#109 &#108&#97&#116&#101&#114. This will help them feel &#97 &#112&#97&#114&#116 &#111&#102 &#116&#104&#101 &#109&#111&#118&#101. &#73&#102 there &#97&#114&#101 old toys &#121&#111&#117 dont plan to take, let &#116&#104&#101 kids help decide which &#111&#102 &#116&#104&#101&#109 &#115&#104&#111&#117&#108&#100 be given away for other &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110 &#116&#111 use &#97&#110&#100 which &#115&#104&#111&#117&#108&#100 &#98&#101 discarded.

What to &#68&#111 &#111&#110 Moving Day.

The &#98&#101&#115&#116 plan &#105&#115 &#116&#111 have the children stay with &#97 family &#109&#101&#109&#98&#101&#114 or trusted friend &#111&#110 the &#100&#97&#121 &#111&#102 &#116&#104&#101 move. &#73&#102 &#116&#104&#105&#115 &#105&#115&#110&#116 &#112&#111&#115&#115&#105&#98&#108&#101, be sure and &#105&#110&#118&#111&#108&#118&#101 &#116&#104&#101&#109 &#105&#110 the &#109&#111&#118&#105&#110&#103 activities. If you have a moving company, introduce your children to the workers so &#116&#104&#101&#121&#108&#108 know whos &#116&#97&#107&#105&#110&#103 &#116&#104&#101&#105&#114 &#115&#116&#117&#102&#102 away. You &#99&#97&#110 give them a &#98&#111&#120 of their own &#116&#111 pack. &#84&#104&#105&#115 could be the box of special belongings youre taking &#105&#110 the &#99&#97&#114 with &#121&#111&#117. It should include all &#116&#104&#101 things &#121&#111&#117&#114 &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110 cant live without ~ &#102&#97&#118&#111&#114&#105&#116&#101 stuffed animals, &#116&#104&#97&#116 special blanket, maybe &#116&#104&#101&#105&#114 favorite pajamas. This will &#97&#99&#99&#111&#109&#112&#108&#105&#115&#104 &#116&#104&#114&#101&#101 &#116&#104&#105&#110&#103&#115. It &#119&#105&#108&#108 keep the &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110 occupied &#97&#110&#100 &#102&#101&#101&#108&#105&#110&#103 useful and it will &#97&#108&#115&#111 ensure &#116&#104&#97&#116 you &#107&#110&#111&#119 exactly &#119&#104&#101&#114&#101 &#116&#104&#101&#115&#101 special items &#97&#114&#101. You would never want &#116&#111 arrive at your new &#104&#111&#109&#101 not knowing where &#116&#111 locate Susies scruffy old bear or Johnnys favorite action figure! It &#119&#105&#108&#108 also help the children feel secure since they have their most important &#98&#101&#108&#111&#110&#103&#105&#110&#103&#115 &#119&#105&#116&#104 them.

Youre &#111&#110 &#89&#111&#117&#114 &#87&#97&#121 &#116&#111 Your New Home.

If youre driving to your new &#104&#111&#109&#101, make &#116&#104&#101 &#116&#114&#105&#112 exciting! If the kids can relate the move &#116&#111 family fun, theyll enjoy it so much &#109&#111&#114&#101. If &#105&#116&#115 a long drive, be sure &#97&#110&#100 have &#108&#111&#116&#115 of games or books to keep &#116&#104&#101 &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110 occupied. Maybe &#101&#97&#99&#104 person could tell their own &#115&#116&#111&#114&#121 about what they think living in &#116&#104&#101 &#110&#101&#119 house will &#98&#101 like. Youll arrive happy &#97&#110&#100 anxious &#116&#111 start this new phase of your lives.

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