Divorce &#105&#115 certainly an emotional time &#102&#111&#114 families. &#73&#110 &#102&#97&#99&#116, &#105&#116 ranks &#97&#115 one of the most stressful experiences in life. However, it &#105&#115 not only the &#97&#100&#117&#108&#116&#115 who experience this stress. If &#116&#104&#101 &#97&#100&#117&#108&#116&#115 are &#112&#97&#114&#101&#110&#116&#115, &#116&#104&#101&#105&#114 children &#111&#102&#116&#101&#110 suffer greatly. Their suffering &#99&#97&#110 not &#98&#101 entirely eliminated. A certain amount of &#103&#114&#105&#101&#102 at the ‘death’ of &#116&#104&#101&#105&#114 parents’ &#114&#101&#108&#97&#116&#105&#111&#110&#115&#104&#105&#112 is &#116&#111 be expected. &#78&#101&#118&#101&#114&#116&#104&#101&#108&#101&#115&#115, while the adults are going through &#116&#121&#112&#105&#99&#97&#108&#108&#121 arduous legal wrangling it is &#105&#109&#112&#111&#114&#116&#97&#110&#116 for &#116&#104&#101&#109 to remember the needs &#111&#102 their children and put &#116&#104&#101&#109 first. &#68&#101&#99&#105&#100&#105&#110&#103 to cooperate for their sake will help &#116&#111 &#112&#114&#111&#116&#101&#99&#116 the &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110’&#115 emotional &#119&#101&#108&#108 being by maintaining their sense of security and need for unconditional love. &#77&#97&#114&#105&#116&#97&#108 breakdown &#105&#115 difficult for everyone – &#101&#115&#112&#101&#99&#105&#97&#108&#108&#121 &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110. &#84&#104&#101&#114&#101 are several &#119&#97&#121&#115 in which loving, &#114&#101&#115&#112&#111&#110&#115&#105&#98&#108&#101 parents can cooperate &#102&#111&#114 the good of their &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110. &#69&#118&#101&#110 though the &#109&#97&#114&#114&#105&#97&#103&#101 may &#104&#97&#118&#101 broken &#100&#111&#119&#110, the &#112&#97&#114&#101&#110&#116&#97&#108 relationship is ‘&#116&#105&#108&#108 death do us part’.

Child and youth counselors emphasize &#116&#104&#97&#116 children need lasting relationships with both parents. More &#111&#102&#116&#101&#110 than not &#106&#111&#105&#110&#116 custody is granted because &#111&#102 this &#97&#99&#99&#101&#112&#116&#101&#100 understanding. &#73&#100&#101&#97&#108&#108&#121, the relationship &#111&#102 the &#112&#97&#114&#101&#110&#116&#115 should be business-like and cooperative for the &#115&#97&#107&#101 of the &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110. Children should &#110&#111&#116 witness &#104&#111&#115&#116&#105&#108&#105&#116&#121 between &#116&#104&#101&#105&#114 &#112&#97&#114&#101&#110&#116&#115 &#97&#110&#100 should not &#104&#101&#97&#114 &#110&#101&#103&#97&#116&#105&#118&#101 &#115&#116&#97&#116&#101&#109&#101&#110&#116&#115 &#97&#98&#111&#117&#116 either parent. &#73&#116 &#105&#115 recommended &#116&#104&#97&#116 &#112&#97&#114&#101&#110&#116&#115 commit to regularly scheduled &#109&#101&#101&#116&#105&#110&#103&#115, &#105&#110 a &#110&#101&#117&#116&#114&#97&#108 &#108&#111&#99&#97&#116&#105&#111&#110 for the purpose of &#100&#105&#115&#99&#117&#115&#115&#105&#110&#103 child-related &#105&#115&#115&#117&#101&#115. &#69&#100&#117&#99&#97&#116&#105&#111&#110, &#109&#101&#100&#105&#99&#97&#108, religious and &#109&#111&#114&#97&#108 issues that &#99&#111&#110&#99&#101&#114&#110 the &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110’&#115 well- &#98&#101&#105&#110&#103 need to &#98&#101 dealt &#119&#105&#116&#104 &#98&#121 both parents. &#73&#102 &#101&#109&#111&#116&#105&#111&#110&#115 prohibit calm conversation, there are often family justice counselors available in the community to facilitate &#116&#104&#101&#115&#101 important &#109&#101&#101&#116&#105&#110&#103&#115.

&#10&#67&#104&#105&#108&#100&#114&#101&#110 going through &#116&#104&#101 divorce of their parents usually have &#109&#97&#110&#121 questions &#97&#110&#100 worries. Compassionate responses &#97&#114&#101 required &#97&#110&#100 it certainly takes mature &#112&#97&#114&#101&#110&#116&#115 in &#111&#114&#100&#101&#114 to put &#97&#115&#105&#100&#101 their own &#105&#115&#115&#117&#101&#115 &#97&#110&#100 help their children gain some understanding about a situation over which they have no control. &#85&#110&#102&#111&#114&#116&#117&#110&#97&#116&#101&#108&#121, many children experience &#103&#117&#105&#108&#116 and often &#98&#108&#97&#109&#101 themselves &#102&#111&#114 the marital breakup &#111&#102 their parents. &#67&#111&#117&#110&#115&#101&#108&#105&#110&#103 &#45 whether group &#111&#114 individual &#45 can &#98&#101 an effective way to lessen this destructive &#98&#117&#114&#100&#101&#110. &#84&#104&#101 objectivity of the counselor may &#104&#101&#108&#112 &#116&#104&#101 &#99&#104&#105&#108&#100 open &#117&#112 and share &#104&#105&#115&#104&#101&#114 feelings. As children mature, their &#113&#117&#101&#115&#116&#105&#111&#110&#115 will differ &#115&#111 &#116&#104&#101 issue of their parents’ divorce is never really &#111&#118&#101&#114. A &#99&#111&#109&#109&#105&#116&#109&#101&#110&#116 on behalf of &#98&#111&#116&#104 &#112&#97&#114&#101&#110&#116&#115 to open communication with the children &#119&#105&#108&#108 reassure them greatly.

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